It is that time of year again, when visions of family gathered around tables filled with eggnog, turkey, mashed potatoes, and pie dance in our heads. Stores have begun their extended shopping hours and seasonal sales. Soon, houses will be lit with twinkling lights and fir trees will be adorned with decorations. Aside from the commercialization North America is notorious for, the winter holidays are about family, giving, and kindness. Since it is so easy to get caught up in the daily grind of life and take for granted the small moments of each day that make life special, I especially enjoy this time because it is also a perfect opportunity for recognizing the beauty in life and being thankful.
My life has its moments of chaotic craziness. Like others, I’ve experienced my share of complex compromising circumstances. Sometimes, I have to catch myself just remembering to breathe before I completely break down; however, I try to stay in the moment and remain thankful for each and every beautifully frustrating moment because overall life is so worth it.
I am so very thankful for all of the people in my life. I have the love of a good man, the best son in the world, a handful of amazing friends, and crazy parents, without whom, I wouldn’t have become the person I am today. I am extremely grateful to have all of these people in my life. They make my life very fulfilling, and I hope each and every one of them knows how special they are to me. I try to make sure they know with cards, texts, hugs, kisses, or a simple thank you.
I don’t buy into the commercialization of holidays, but I do use the holidays as a reminder to remember to show gratitude to those in my life. I try to select gifts that show my appreciation. It may be handmade or store bought, but it is something I think will be valued and useful and symbolic of my intent. One of the most thoughtful gifts I have ever received was the most beautiful handmade card.
Being thankful is a gift in itself. It has been scientifically proven that the acts of unsolicited kindness and gratitude increase the ‘happy’ chemicals in your brain giving you a euphoric feeling. Not only is this beneficial to you, but to everyone around you as well.
If you ever feel like your life story can top the charts and you are alone, volunteer your time in a children’s hospital or peruse the internet news. You will invariably meet others with more sorrowful stories than yours, and they will miraculously have smiles on their faces and hope in their hearts.
Life is a matter of perspective. If you are looking for that front row parking spot, it can only be yours for the taking if you are actively looking for it. It is all about twisting the truth to the positive.
The next time you are late to work, think about it for a minute. Yes, you made is there late, but you made it there safely. If you ever have to stay home from work and miss that important meeting because your child has a cold, you can be thankful it is just a cold and not a serious illness. I liken it to the concept of the half full half empty glass. Which glass is yours is up to you…….
JJ 
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