I broke up with my boyfriend two days ago.
We were together for almost 11 months. Im 26 he is 32.
He took my virginity. He wasn't physically abusive but maybe a little verbally abusive at times.
He has told me once that he didn't think too highly of me when i told him of my dream to be in law enforcement.
He said i didn't prove to him that i had what it takes to me a police officer.
I went to the hospital a few months ago and because he thought he would get yelled at by my or his parents instead of taking me to the closest hospital he took me to one downtown about 25 mins away because he thought i would just "get over it" He was more worried about himself than my health.
This last time he accused me of "trapping" him, saying i want to have his baby on purpose.
He got suspicious when i a went to planned parenthood and got birth control pills without him.
I asked him if i was trying to trap u why would i get on birth control and he says i don't know mabe u got them and didn't take them.
I asked him why he thought that he had no answer for me.
I was hurt, and pissed off. but i still continued to be with him. But i no longer trusted him if he didnt' trust me.
So after all of that and days went by without him talking to me or picking up his phone. I finally called him, he picked up and i called it quits. But why am i the one upset? I dont' get it