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    MY ex is dating HIS ex a month after we broke up..How do I get over this?

    We broke up a month ago, and were together for nearly a year. I was always insecure about his ex, because she tried to break us and was in his friend group so they always ran into each other. A week before we broke up, we had a fight because he went to her house with all his mates and didn't tell me, so i yelled at him and he said "it's over bye!". I was upset so I messaged a guy he's insecure about, saying "I'm single again yay". The next day he said he doesn't remember saying "its over" but then that night he saw those texts and dumped me.

    He said he loved me but couldn't be with me because "I hurt him". A week after we broke up him and his ex kissed and she went back to his house! Since then they have been seeing each other. She was horrible and controlling, insecure since he cheated on her when they dated last, they fought always AND she slept with 2 of his best friends, why did he go back there?

    I understand he was hurt, but how did he just start dating her straight away? Without any time to grieve over me? We dated for nearly a year so he must have had genuine feelings? I went to his house to pick up my things because he was at work, i was chatting to his family then he came home, and completely ignored me! Why cant he even look me in the eye!

    I dont know what to do anymore, because I am so upset mostly because I have so many questions. How did he stop loving me so quick? Is she a rebound? He said we ended because we kept arguing, but why is giving her a second chance and not me? She was much worse than me! I just dont know what is wrong with me.

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    There is nothing wrong with you and the answer to all those question is, "Why do you care?"

    He's obviously not the guy for you. Whatever his motivations and feelings are really aren't your concern anymore. Forget about him and move on.

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    Sometimes people have more feelings for their exes than they have for the ones they are with. It's possible he may have had some feelings for you but he just had more for his ex. That's why it was easy for him to just pick up where things left off. Now if things with them go south again then that's on them. That has nothing to do with you. You being upset about him leaving you is not going to change anything. Her being a cheater is not going to make him see the light and realize you are better. Everything they do has nothing to do with you so just be glad that it's not your problem and move on.

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    He's a cheater so if he cheated on her the first time, he will cheat on her again. Their relationship will not last because they were cheating on each other in the past and it already failed one time. Don't worry about him and don't let him play the victim in this situation. He will try to come crawling back after he is done with her. Because she is nothing but a rebound. He made the bed so let him lay in it, that's his problem. And I want you to treat him the same way and act like he doesn't exist. I don't know why when someone gets mad they say something to try to hurt that person. And then try to play the victim.

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    Let him go - you're well rid of him. If his feelings for you were genuine, no way would he be back with her so soon. What they are doing is no longer your concern, because you are superior to them. You are honest in your relationships - they are not. They cheated on each other while they were together, and they will probably do so again when the first novelty has worn off. They sound like very shallow people, and you are well out of it. You deserve better - much better.
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