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Love Advice Forum Thread: Asking a guy if he likes you

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    Asking a guy if he likes you

    How do you ask a guy if he likes you, without sounding akward or desperate?

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    There are many ways that you can do this. I am assuming that you like the guy in question too and that you are not just asking out of curiosity! People often think that being turned down in love is the worst thing that can happen. I disagree. Something far worse is not having the guts to follow your emotions. If you feel desperate then you will come across as desperate. It's all about the mind in this situation. You need to believe in yourself, then it won't sound awkward or desperate. If you believe that you are cool & sexy then you will probably come across as cool and sexy. I would suggest that asking them if they like you will get a different response if you tell them that you like them first!

    I would just walk up to the boy you like (at an appropriate time) and say something along the lines of 'Hi. How are you? I wanted to let you know that I think you are really hot/good looking/sexy (or whatever is the current speach in your locale), how would you like to go out some time?' If they say no then move on. If they say yes then bingo!
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    If there is one thing I've learned over the years is this - you don't need to ask. If a man likes you, believe me, he will let you know. If you're left wondering, he doesn't. Don't pursue it. You'll just leave yourself open for heartbreak.
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    It could depend if you are close to the guy or you are irritated to him.
    If he is your friend, maybe you could ask if as if joking or teasing him. Or if you are too close and you feel comfortable talking to him about anything, you could ask him seriously if it will really matters to you. But I would also agree that you could just look for clues or be observant and evaluate if he likes you cause you could somehow feel it. If you have a common close friend, maybe you could ask that person to ask him if he likes you without revealing that you are the one that really asking about it.
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    Quote Originally Posted by Eiza View Post
    If there is one thing I've learned over the years is this - you don't need to ask. If a man likes you, believe me, he will let you know. If you're left wondering, he doesn't. Don't pursue it. You'll just leave yourself open for heartbreak.
    I couldnt disagree more. Not all men are the same. Some men are much more guarded with their emotions than this. It sounds like you may have had a negative experience or two but I don't think it's fair to stereotype people. I have male friends who are very sensitive people. It takes them a great deal of courage to ask a girl out. Others are much more ready to wear their heart on their sleaves and be much more flirtatious.
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    The easy way is to just ask him out. If says yes then he is probably into you. If he says no, then oh well you'll probably be embaressed but you'll live and you will know that he doesn't like you. This does take courage on your part but if you like the guy then maybe its worth the risk.
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    You could ask him straight to the point if he like you. Sometimes it depends on the tone of your voice to sound as if you're just asking it as a random question, which is good because if he says no it reduces the feeling of you being embarrassed.
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    I am with Eiza on this one. Call it conservative, but I am not really into asking a guy whether he likes me or not. I just think it's improper for a girl to do. Besides, you would eventually feel and see evidences if he likes you or not if you would just spend more time together. That would also save a girl from possible hurt and rejection so I suggest you let him tell you that he likes you and then that's the time that you can already do your part.
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    You don't have to ask for it. If a guy really likes you, he'll definitely do the first move.


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