I am 25. My wife is 24. We have been married for 3.5 years. Both of us are in pretty good health. I'm a little overweight (~15-20lb above "recommended") but not obese...I just don't understand.
We have not been intimate in over 10 months. My wife claims that she has no sex drive, no interest in sex. For two years before that, we had sex, at most, twice per month, so I'm used to having to wait a while in between having sex. I enjoy foreplay. I've done everything I could to make things more enjoyable for both of us. She just doesn't "need sex like [I] do." For the first few months of our current dry spell, I tried to remain optimistic. At this point, I'm about at my wit's end.
To me, sex is not just a biochemical act. It is the pinnacle of intimacy in a relationship. As such, I've felt little to no intimacy in our marriage for almost a year.
Sorry to just dump like this as soon as I join this forum, but I've gotta ask:
1. Has anyone else here had to deal with this?
2. If so, does it ever get better?
3. What should I do?