Hi everyone and thanks for viewing my thread. I am looking for advice, not judgment here. I already feel horrible because I NEVER dreamed I would have a crush after 10 years with my wife.
Here we go… I have been happily married for 10 years. I find my wife fun and attractive. We have a lot in common when it comes to activities, however, our personalities are quite different. She is type A, and I am type B. Anyway, we recently got an intern at work 3 months ago. We have had to work close sometimes, and we catch each other staring at each other daily across the room, then we smile. She knows I am married, and she has a boyfriend of 5 years and told me they have some big problems recently. She is 12 years younger than me, but older than 21. We never talk about sexual topics but we both get nervous when we are near. She recently asked what my wife’s name is out of the blue and wants to see a photo of my wife sometime.
Why is she asking these questions? Does she really like me? Or should I be afraid that she is trying to find my wife and contact her about me flirting?
I have never had a crush on anyone I have worked with before. And I have worked with many attractive women the last 15 years. I was always a morally decent person. I am having trouble not looking at her. I cannot just quit my job right now either. My wife would probably divorce me if she found out about this. She is insecure.