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    She facebook chats me often; does she like me?

    We chat on facebook about twice a day, for about 30 min sessions or longer. Does indicate at all that she possibly likes me? We never chatted much until the past week or two, during which time the chats have been frequent.

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    Depends on what do you chat about? Does she flirt with you or just chit-chatting? There are people who chats due to boredom (like me) though it's also possible that she might likes you that's why she constantly chats with you.

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    She obviously likes you if she is chatting that much with, but if you mean romantically, well that's hard to say with what you've written. Usually there are signs she does, such as flirting, complimenting you etc. Try flirting a bit with her and see the reaction. That should give you more of a clue.

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    Never assume anything in text. I thought a girl liked me also on chat because we frequently chatted and she kept telling that I was the only one she could chat with and the conversations were reaching deep intimate levels. I assumed this was a hint that she was open to me romantically but I was wrong. Needless to say, awkwardness ensued when I tried to escalate. But we're still friends though.

    With that said though, you'll never know til you actually find out

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    We women don't bother for more than 3 mins to someone we do not like. If you chat that often, it's already a budding friendship. Now it's your choice to pursue further and see what develops! In short, what you share now is already a good start! ^_^ Go, go!

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    It depends on what y'all are talking about... If its flirty messages, then I would say yeah, she likes you romantically. But if its just every day stuff, it could be more along the lines of friendship or even she sees you as family. I know there are weeks when I will sit & chat almost non-stop to one of my friends but he knows that there is no chance of romantic feelings because I am happily married. And then a few weeks later, I won't have much to say to him so we don't talk.

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    I think it depends on the circumstances. Do you talk only on facebook? Or do you email and talk on the phone? It could be that she is merely chatting for the sake of having someone to talk to. See if she's also willing to interact with you outside of the facebook setting.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Unregistered View Post
    We chat on facebook about twice a day, for about 30 min sessions or longer. Does indicate at all that she possibly likes me? We never chatted much until the past week or two, during which time the chats have been frequent.
    It seems fairly obvious...to me...that she likes you. I think you're asking if she's attracted to you where she wants something more than a friendship. The two of you must be compatible and as long as you're able to communicate why not ask her if she could be interested in you as a boyfriend? I know it's a risk to ask but if you don't you might always wonder.
    Thank you for showing me, each and every day, how deeply loved I am.

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    She might like you! Try to test the water by sending her flirty messages and getting to know her more. Try to move things offline to see if she really likes you. Ask her out for a cup of coffee. See if your chemistry translates well offline as well. I guess that will be the true test for this budding romance. Best of luck.

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    If you could provide more information like what are the things you chat about then we might be able to know if the she has an interest for you. like what others have said above, maybe she does or not. But there is a huge possibility she does, I mean my girlfriend now, we used to chat a lot before we entered this relationship. We chatted of anything under the sun and it was all great. Good luck though and have fun!

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