I think I know the answer, but I just want to see what other people think about this issue. There is this guy who I think wants to go out, but he hasn't asked me out yet. I haven't totally given in to his hints because I'm not sure if I really want to date the guy. He is really not my type, but I do think he could be a great man. He has a job, nice car, no kids(i think), and very well-mannered. I'm not dating anybody right now, but maybe I should to pass the time away until I find the right one. However, if I do this then I would be leading him on and I don't want to do that. I'm thinking I could be upfront and honest by letting him know I'm not looking for a serious relationship, but some casual fun. The tricky part is I don't want to fall for this guy! My Mom ended up marrying my Dad and she didn't like him in the beginning. The truth is I'm still hooked on this one guy online which by the way is in and out of my life and I'm just hoping in some way or fashion we could hit off, but I know realistically it is not going to happen. We just connect so well and with this new guy we just don't have the same connection. Okay, spill it out.. what do you all think?