Sooooo I'm new here and looking for an unbiased perspective on the lack of sex in my relationship.
My boyfriend and I have been together for 6 months. Yet we've known eachother for a few years. There is a 10 year age difference, I'm 30 he's 40. This is the only problem in our relationship.
We don't have sex nearly as often as I would like. Like once a week or even weeks. When we do have sex, its great. Lots of forplay, he's very well endowed. He does have an issue with premature ejaculation, which I really don't mind. After a short break, usually we continue.
I have brought this up to him. He says life just gets in the way. We've both been sick, my kids wake up in the middle of the night, so on and so on. He said he didn't see it as an issue but will make a point to make it more frequent. That hasn't been any better and that talk was a month. I have also made sure to be the one to initiate it but I've been turned down so many times that I don't do it any more as I don't take rejection well.