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    Need Help!! Tring to seduce aunt

    Hello so, my aunt is around 32, 33 years old and she is happily married to my uncle. We are not blood related and i am really close with both my aunt and uncle, theyre like my second parents. I visit them usually once or twice a year and i am again this coming holiday season. I have been fantasizing about my aunt since i was 15. I am now 19 and i want to act on it.For some reason i cant stop thinking about her body, its truly amazing, curves are perfect, nice big breast and a ass thats outta this world! Shes one of the coolest ppl ive ever met and we have a greaat relationship but i dont wanna **** it up, at the same time i would give anything in the world to just seduce her one night. So i need some help!!
    Due to a situation, i will end up being with her alone in her house(just us) for a couple of days and this is when i want to make my move. Ive been reading some suggestions in other eforums and ppl say they compliment their aunts quite alot. I unfortunatley have never had the balls to tell her she looks amazing, or feel her up or anything like that. I know i need to stop being a pussy, but do you think i can accomplish this in such a short period? I will be with the family, including her, for a week before were alone so i will have some time to try and "pre heat" her before i make my move when were alone. So please HELP!! and if u have any questions or misunderstandings, obiously just askk.

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    aw thank goodness you are not related to her. you can't sleep with blood relatives you know, it can twist you.
    better avoid incest altogether, but i guess you know that you are not 12.

    anyway, about the uncles wife aunt, hun i'm sorry to crush your dreams, but you better leave it at fantasies. if you try to flirt with your aunt, or "feel her up" she will be horrified. you are her husbands nephew and if she is anything as nice as they both sound, she doesn't look at you that way. in a sexual way.
    also, not a good idea to feel a women up before you are absolutely sure she wants your hands on her, so kissing is a good way to tell, you kiss a girl and she starts making little moaning sounds it's safe to assume she likes you...but i guess you know that too, still don't just be going around touching random women that can end in a catastrophe.even if it's not sexual touching, if a girl says you are invading her personal space, always be a gentleman and apologize and tone it down a bit, girls are gentle and don't like to have their space invated.
    back to your aunt, you will cause both your uncle and you aunt a great deal of distress if you act on your desires. just masturbate a lot thinking about her and keep your interaction with her respectful and innocent, till you get over your crush on her.

    it's just a crush you will be over it in no times. trust me, 33 year old married ladies, do not dream of 19 year old in laws...
    IM SO SORRY if this is not what you wanted to hear. HUG

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    Yea but the thing is no way its a crush, its been going on for like 4-5 years ive had crushes before not it. Its just like everytime i see her, she is more amazing then last time.
    And obviously i dont want to damage our relation ship or any in my family so iwas thinking and i think i got a pretty good, full proof plan IMO.

    When were alone i will leave a laptop open where she can seee it in plain view. I will be in the shower so she has time to look around and not feel rushed or scared to read it.
    My laptop will be open to a webpage like this ( a forum) in which ill pose a similar topic as i did above. I wanna tailor this messege to infulence her to act on it or confront me about it.
    I need some suggestions though..
    One idea i had was to put something in the post along the lines of " ima virgin so i feel embarrassed about approaching her, or any girl for that matter,i feel like sucha loser.." or something like that , if she reads that there might be a chance she feels sorry for me in a way and would try to help me out. Or she might think, damn this guy just has a little crush and he needs to bang another girl to get me out of his head, which would be the worst thing she could think.
    I feel this approach is much better than say, posting that i am a stud with women and i would really love to please her, because she will more than likely feel disgusted and mad at me and theres a small chance shell feel turned on enuff to want me and approach me... IDk i need some advice, i really want to make this happen because i think ill stop thinking about her once its done so plz Help! Thanks

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    Ohh and to add to that ive been searching thru forums, and i got another idea i think i should try since its innocent.
    I wanna leave my bedroom door open so she can see me when she walks by in the morning to leave for work, shell pass it a few times..
    i wanna have sometight boxers on and have a hard on, maybe even revealing some of it..idk still trying to figure this plan out.
    The idea is ill put a camera to see her reaction and if she stops by to take a glance, ill know she at least thought about it for a split second, so later when she comes home and sees the post on the laptop,
    shell be more inclined to act, thinking of what she saw earlier... Or maybe this is a dumb idea lol idk need some advice and btw if u wanna say dont do it, dont. ive decided im doing it its just how and what is the best way, ive never had this oopportunity to be alone with her for that long so i defs have to take advantage of said opportunity.

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    well, i can speak for myself only when i say, that whatever you'd post, short of i want to cut my aunt into pieces and cook her and eat her, she will not feel disgusted with you. you are young healthy and i guess it's perfectly normal to have sexual feelings to older, nice women, but.....she is married. married women like to sleep with their husbands only, we are funny that way. even if she was considering cheating, you are her husbands family, their is a better chance she sees you as a brother, rather than in a sexual way.

    you can try the computer plan, but do not go into any extreme, do not boast how you are a stud or say you re a virgin. just say how much you like her and want to make her feel good and keep it sexy but NOT creepy.
    but, sweet pie, please be ready for her to sit you down and explain to you how what you are doing is inappropriate. she will also tell your uncle, coz when people are in a good marriage they confide in each other...so you will screw up the relationship with them...you are not 15 anymore, they cannot have a 19 year old man walking around with a hardon...also...where is your sense of loyalty to your uncle?

    i did not want to say this, but you are not a kid anymore, grownup men do not try and seduce their brother's, mates, uncles woman...
    it's sleazy and gross.
    it is a crush that stuck with you from your teenage years, that will go away as soon as you shag someone more age appropriate, and if it isn't just masturbate and don't hurt your uncle like that.

    don't you think he will feel betrayed?
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    just seen your reply.. my bad
    Last edited by zigb123; 11-26-2012 at 12:24 AM.

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    not if he doesnt find out.. And idk women just have a weird way of thinking.. how would this be betraying my uncle? Strictly a physical encounter , not trying to steal his girl, i would take a bullet for him either way reagardless of what happens/happened. I just cant keep her off my mind, ive tryed to "just masturbate" but it does nothing, if anything it makes the desire more passionate because im thinking of every part of her perfect body.
    Obivously though you do have a point if somehow my aunt feels like she needs to tell him im ****ed, and ill probably lose 2 of my closest friends. Thats why i had the whole saying im a virgin to get her to do somehting idea because, the way i see it like that worst cacse scenerio she thinks im just a horny kid that needs to screw something/anything to realize i dont want her. But if that happens she will probably end up not saying anything to my uncle because she will feel bad for me and not want to embarass me, shes a sweetie like that. After all i say its full proof because by letting her see what i think without saying it to her or trying something, i didnt ACT on it so theres nothing really to tell my uncle or anyone, if she feels weird about it shell confront me and tell me its unnacceptable cuz well be alone for a couple days, but i dont really see her telling my uncle she seen my laptop open on a thread that says im sexually attracted to her, do you feel what im saying? like do you agree, nothing really to tell him if i do laptop plan as opposed to making amove or getting her drunk, which I was also contemplating she loves wine so itll be easy to get her to drink a glass or 2 with me, which would loosen her up incase she is hesitant to say something after she reads the post..namean?

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    um, if you were 15, and i was your aunt, not that i am that hot, lol, but let's assume for the sake of the argument i was her, i would tell my husband, and tell him to go easy on you, let's just pretend i didn't read it, i would not confront you, or want him to confront you. but sweetie you are 19, i've got news for you you re a grown man...if she trusts you not to be an aggressive fool and jump all over her, and i suppose she does if you are friends, she will confront you, and tell her husband, and the he will confront you...you are an adult, as much as she still thinks of you as a kid, and will not be appalled coz you are still very young, she still has to deal with it. you will lose them and they will both think ill of you.i really have to say this, shagging your friends wife isn't a decent thing to do....if my son considered that shagging his auntie doesn't count as betrayal to his uncle, i'd be very sad about it. i'd feel i failed my sons....please reconsider you plan....one day you will fall in love with some woman, how would you feel if your nephew made a move on her? also it doesn't have to be a woman you love, any girl you are putting your penis in, is off limits to your family, friends, pets...etc...there are just some things that aren't done...there's a code....there's so many women in this world, why stay hung up on your uncles wife?
    i'm really sorry i can't be more supportive, but i really feel that if you go down this road, you will hurt people and come one step closer to being a worse man as oppose to a better one.go out, mix it up a bit, meet someone single...get your own sexy woman...don't think you'd be doing favours to your uncle by sexing up his...it seems like he is perfectly capable of keeping his wife satisfied....
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    okay thanks for the advice!!
    And just to answer some questions of yours, its really hard to say what i would do or not do if i was in this situation as some one else like my uncle or aunt or family. Even for you its impossible to even come close to understanding because uve never felt that way about someone that is basically family, Its like explaining the feeling of mushrooms or something like that to someone whos never tried ..its impossible to explain but like ive said this has been going on for years, maybe even before i was 15 i cant remember that far back though, and i always think about her, i wake up and immediately start thinking that im gonna get to see her in a month or so, thats how intense this is, ive obviously tried to think logically but i just cant change my mind.. I feel like i need to say something. Would you have any advice for me on saying something to her tell her whats going on? Not to ask her if shes down, more along the lines of, i know this is ****ed up, but i gotta tell you cuz i think its unfair to keep it secret. Ive posted many threads on this in diff forums and everyone is telling me not to do it cuz itss wrong and think about how her and my uncle feel. But my question is, by constantly having these thoughts about her, constanlty thinking about her when im masturbating, is that not also very wrong to do and not let her know? Still pretty f-ed up IMO, it is what it iss..

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    well unless you know magic spells that would give you the possibility to try an control her by masturbating, what you do in your own room is your thing and isn't evil.it's evil to try and subdue people to our wishes, but i am assuming your masturbation is a civilian masturbation for the purposes of tension release only. see, it's selfish if you tell her. she loves her husband, what could she possibly do with info like that.
    deep down you are just hoping she will do you.so you are in love with her, by the stuff you say happens to you. this too is a temporary state, not ever falling in love is the Love....anytime i fell in love with a taken man, i made no effort to act on it...it's silly, really...who am i to break up someones relationships, i'd only expect for the man to laugh at me and say but i've got a gf i love her...
    be honest with me here, you are horny and you want to shag her, you don't care who you hurt in the process???
    sorry but she is your aunt, your uncles wife.....she can't possibly be your soul mate...obviously you fell strongly that you should tell her, b ut you will lose them both, trust me....they cannot possibly keep you as a friend .

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