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    Oral Sex on Women - Going Down :)

    I noticed a girl posted in the Sex Advice Forum asking for advice for giving her boyfriend a perfect blowjob.
    In the spirit of equality I felt obligated to pose the opposite question.

    I personally have always found going down on my partner to be an exceedingly enjoyable experience. I pretty much enjoy everything about it, always have. It is definitely one of my favorite things to do in the bedroom (or outside of the bedroom for that matter). I am enthusiastic and willing to do it for long periods of time and this has taught me many useful tricks and techniques. The women that I have been with have all certainly appreciated my dedication to the task (and have taken extreme advantage of it - with no complaints from me).

    But over the years many of my female friends have told me that most guys just don't know what they are doing at all and a man who actually gives a woman great head is apparently exceedingly rare. In fact a friend of mine told me just today that she is not even sure if she has ever had an orgasm during oral sex in her entire life (I have to assume that if she can't remember then she probably hasn't ever had one). I don't know how this is possible but unfortunately this appears to be common for many women.

    So guys with some skills - any good techniques to share? Anything that you do that drives your partner wild? Any oral sex secrets?

    And girls - What do you love a guy to do? What do you consider to be the perfect method for a guy to 'push the right buttons'?
    What do women wish that all guys knew about giving oral sex? What tips would you give them if you could?
    Or even what is the wrong thing to do? Have you ever been with a guy that was just absolutely terrible at it? - and why?

    Remember the more you share on this forum may result in a lot more happy women all over the world for years to come (no pun intended). So don't hold back - Please educate the 'orally challenged' men of the world.
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    First, I am not a guy, but I feel like I have something to say for this.
    Second, the best way to give a woman good oral is actually through communication. For example, if you notice she likes something more, then do more of that. I say this because many women are different and different things pleasure them more. The only way to completely conquer oral sex on a woman is to make sure that you are watching her signals of enjoyment. Or if you and the woman are very open with sexual communication, then she may just tell you what she thinks is amazing and if she doesn't comment on something, it either means its just okay or that its too amazing to comment (which you should be able to figure out in moans).
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    I have to agree with dkramarczyk, it is different for every woman. I would have to say communication is key to knowing what and how she likes it. For me nice and slow is the best way. I don't appreciate a guy beating my clit like a drum. I lose sensitivity and soon there after cant even fathom having an orgasm like that. Also the sloppy eaters disgust me, I don't think drool dripping down my crack calls for an enjoyable reaction.
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    Quote Originally Posted by unbeliever View Post
    I noticed a girl posted in the Sex Advice Forum asking for advice for giving her boyfriend a perfect blowjob.
    In the spirit of equality I felt obligated to pose the opposite question.

    I personally have always found going down on my partner to be an exceedingly enjoyable experience. I pretty much enjoy everything about it, always have. It is definitely one of my favorite things to do in the bedroom (or outside of the bedroom for that matter). I am enthusiastic and willing to do it for long periods of time and this has taught me many useful tricks and techniques. The women that I have been with have all certainly appreciated my dedication to the task (and have taken extreme advantage of it - with no complaints from me).

    But over the years many of my female friends have told me that most guys just don't know what they are doing at all and a man who actually gives a woman great head is apparently exceedingly rare. In fact a friend of mine told me just today that she is not even sure if she has ever had an orgasm during oral sex in her entire life (I have to assume that if she can't remember then she probably hasn't ever had one). I don't know how this is possible but unfortunately this appears to be common for many women.

    So guys with some skills - any good techniques to share? Anything that you do that drives your partner wild? Any oral sex secrets?

    And girls - What do you love a guy to do? What do you consider to be the perfect method for a guy to 'push the right buttons'?
    What do women wish that all guys knew about giving oral sex? What tips would you give them if you could?
    Or even what is the wrong thing to do? Have you ever been with a guy that was just absolutely terrible at it? - and why?

    Remember the more you share on this forum may result in a lot more happy women all over the world for years to come (no pun intended). So don't hold back - Please educate the 'orally challenged' men of the world.
    First I would like to say, all women are different and are not as easy to get off as men tend to be. So your best suggestions will be from women. The best advice and women will give you would be to pay attention to your partner and her reactions to determine what to or not to do in order to help her receive the most pleasure.

    One more specific thing I will say; using your fingers while using your mouth as well can create some great sensations for a woman.
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    Speaking as someone who has been down there very often, let me share some ideas.

    First, take it easily. For some women, being eaten is a new experience and the idea of your teeth being so close to some of their most tender parts can be scary. Two, explore. No two woman feels the same about every part of their genital area. Some are more sensitive at the clitoris. Some feel more on the inside of the vagina. Yet others loved it when you tickle the other aperture. With your tongue.

    One word of advice. Don't do this to a virgin. She may like it so much that she would prefer it to the normal way of making love. On the plus side, she will be totally devoted to you for giving her such unimaginable pleasure.

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    Personally I think that the most important things are enthusiasm, patience, watching the movements of your partner and reacting accordingly and finally being willing to do it at least sometimes with no expectation of reciprocation directly afterwards.

    Men have a bad habit of doing things that only focuses only on pleasuring the woman for selfish expectations of what they will receive back immediately in return. I have found that when I woman realises that a man is not like that - they are so grateful that the rewards at a later date become greater in return anyway (Delayed reciprocation) - I highly recommend this to all men. Sometimes it is nice to just let someone relax and enjoy and be the focus of all the attention.

    I personally love giving it even more than receiving it - always have. I love how it makes a woman just melt in my hands, I love the taste of them while I am licking them, the smell as they get more excited and watching them get wetter and wetter the longer I keep going. I love the moans, groans and screams and all the noises they make while I am going down on them, I love teasing them and making them beg and plead for me never to stop, I love the way their body shifts and moves to every lick and suck and nibble, I love when they forget about their entire world and everything that is happening in their lives because all they can think about is my tongue and what I am doing to them with it, I love the way they grab my hair and involuntarily squeeze my head with their thighs and the way their legs start to tremble when they are getting close to cumming, I love the way they look down at me and bite their lips with that look of 'there is nothing else in my entire world in this moment except you' total lust and desire in their eyes just a few seconds before they cum and I especially love after they cum the moment when they realise that I still haven't finished yet and that it was only the beginning.

    I love everything about the whole experience. Especially when I am giving it to someone I truly care about. Pleasuring a woman that I love in this way and them having an orgasm while my tongue is still inside them is one of my favorite fantasies.
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    Wow unbeliever

    I wish my boyfriend had your enthusiasm. I have to admit that your post made me feel a little warm when I read it.
    I suddenly feel the need to talk to my boyfriend about a few things
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    Like you, I enjoy giving oral sex, and I know I am good at it judging by the response when I go down. I think the key to giving good oral sex is to actually enjoy doing it, if you enjoy doing it, you will likely be good at it.
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    The best guide I found on the net is: BJ 101 | Penis Size Hope it helps.

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    Quote Originally Posted by kissme View Post
    Wow unbeliever

    I wish my boyfriend had your enthusiasm. I have to admit that your post made me feel a little warm when I read it.
    I suddenly feel the need to talk to my boyfriend about a few things
    Tell me about it. All those details remind me of sexy novels. Ditto about the enthusiasm on behalf of the partner. My husband isn't quite the go-getter when it comes to this.
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