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    Tips on Dry Humping?

    The day me and my girlfriend got together, we had a long running session of Dry Humping and then some several other times every time things got heated up. For a while I always ended up getting "blue balls" because I could never finish and we'd eventually stop but sometimes I felt she finished, but I was never sure.

    I spent the night at her house about a couple days ago and we got out of control. We stripped our clothes and she was down to her panties and me completely naked and we dry humped and we did it three times that night but I couldn't get her to finish.

    I'm a virgin so I've never seen anything under the panties, so I'm not really sure if I'm stimulating her or not. From her expressions I can tell I am but maybe I'm not lasting long enough, though we go on for hours on ends. It gets pretty heated and I can tell she likes it when it gets really rough but with her underwear on I can't get too hard, and normally going rough is what causes me to finish.

    I want to know if there's any tips I can have to stimulate her more and make her get to the point. I want her to finish and although I think I'm almost there, I want to know if there's anything I'm doing on positioning or if there's any advice I can get to get her stimulated faster.


    Also, the situation with the underwear my girlfriend is not comfortable taking them off because of previous experiences she's had which I'm completely understanding of. Dry Humping is the one thing she's really comfortable with and engages me to do so I feel satisfying her and doing this with her is getting her closer to feeling more comfortable.

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    As I read this, I noticed that you didn't mention any four play. Maybe that would get her to finish if you would kiss, lick, suck ( I hope I'm not being too open) her on the neck, breast, thighs, or anywhere that she would enjoy. Maybe you should try that. I am not too knowledgeable on dry humping so I hope I helped to some degree. Sorry I couldn't be of more help.

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    Sorry, I didn't explain too much in detail but we do do a lot of four play. Normally the one who initiates the dry humping is her by getting me to start pushing but it starts off with us making out and slowly I start groping, licking and kissing her body. Idk it's weird to explain all of this since I'm still really all new to this, but I'm very compassionate as I really do love her body and everything about her physique so I take my time.

    It's just the dry humping process once we get there I feel like we hit a dead end and I think some of that plays into I'm never really sure I'm actually hitting her clitoris or not when we're rubbing against each other. I do still career her as we go dry hump. I know all her sweet spots so I try to manipulate them in timing and I feel I get her really close but I can never get her to the climax, just close to it and back down.

    I'm not sure if I need more stamina or better technique since we go on for a while.

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    I wouldn't worry too much about your stamina. You are a young guy and should naturally build up more stamina the more you experience these things. The important thing is that you are paying attention to her body to ensure she gets her needs met. A lot of guys older and more experienced don't do that.
    As for whether she finishes or not, the only one that truly knows the answer is her. She could be saying she has if she's had enough and wants to end the session or it might have actually happened. It's definitely possible for her to receive enough stimulation to orgasm from what you describe.
    Just bear in mind that the term dry humping can be deceptive and lull the participants into a false sense of security. If you end up ejaculating it's very much possible for your girlfriend to become pregnant. Or for either of you to transmit STI's. Clothes or underpants are not an adequate barrier for the transmission of sperm. I've lost track of the number of people I've seen who honestly didn't know they were unprotected in this scenario and therefore were surprised to be pregnant.

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