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    Why did I cry during sex?

    okay so me and my fiancee were having sex and he just started telling me how beautiful i am , how he wanted to spend the rest of his life with me and how much he loved me . So at the end of all this while we were still having sex tears just started running down my face all of a sudden . So i guess i was silently crying and i dont know why . He tells me all this stuff when we are not having sex and i never cry but when he told me this while we were having sex silent tears just started running down my face and i was embarassed but he kissed the tears from my cheek and told me it was okay . Id just like to know why i was crying .

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    Sex with someone you care for is an emotional experience as well as physical. You could have cried simply because you were affected by his words in the intimate setting you were in. It's not odd. I think it shows you have a bond and connect with him.

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    Hi! I'm no stranger to crying during sex. The first time I did was when I had recently been asked to be my admirer's girlfriend. The fact that he had asked me to be something I wanted so bad paired with the beautiful, physical act of sex brought me to tears. Another time I cried was when I was sad to be having sex with a guy when I deeply desired another. I honestly just feel that sex is emotional and physical for us ladies especially if we like the guy. Your fiance was whispering very intimate and affection things to you and paired with the emotional act of sex, it's no surprise you started crying.

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    I guess it is just tears of joy, my dear. Maybe you've been touched by all the sweet words your fiancee said. I guess if I am in the same situation, I will be emotional as well. I think you are one lucky girl to have a man who loves you that way.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Unregistered View Post
    okay so me and my fiancee were having sex and he just started telling me how beautiful i am , how he wanted to spend the rest of his life with me and how much he loved me . So at the end of all this while we were still having sex tears just started running down my face all of a sudden . So i guess i was silently crying and i dont know why . He tells me all this stuff when we are not having sex and i never cry but when he told me this while we were having sex silent tears just started running down my face and i was embarassed but he kissed the tears from my cheek and told me it was okay . Id just like to know why i was crying .
    He is so sweet. Your tears denote that you are so affected with everything that he said. You love each other very much and that's a good thing. It is not just sex, my dear. It is intimacy with the one that you truly love. Emotions are there that's why you are crying. You are so overwhelmed with the love that he is showing you.

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    Your hormones are on booster rockets during sex. Sometimes, the tenderness can trigger emotions that cause you to feel deeply loved. Other times, the joy just flows out. Ironically, for men, tears are scientifically a turn-off. The chemical in tears makes men want to STOP having sex, so there could be something in you that wants him to be done (?) Not sure that applies here, but the joy of being affirmed while being loved sexually is such a great picture of how Christ loves his bride and why we won't need sex in Heaven, we will feel so fulfilled all the time. For more info on sex and crying, check out this article: My girlfriend cries after sex: What should I do? - National Sexual Health | Examiner.com

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    I think you were so happy to hear those words while being in such a vulnerable position. Hearing how beautiful you are while having sex, especially if you have self esteem issues, can cause overwhelming emotions. Been there, done that. Its hard to explain to a guy why you are crying after such a beautiful experience.

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    I agree with everyone else. Women are emotional creatures and crying during sex with the man you love and who loves you is a pretty much due to that. The feeling from both of you are beyond the physical contact, it's more of like having an encounter with your souls. It's difficult to explain but I'm sure that your tears were due to happiness.

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    I know exactly what you're talking about and I would call it an emotional release. I've been there and it was so therapeutic and healing. Some people don't realize that healing experiences can take place during very beautiful and healthy sexual encounters. I've heard people say that LOVE IS THE MOST POWERFUL ENERGY IN THE UNIVERSE and I'm not in a position to argue with that. It's truly a gift to experience that kind of love during sex.
    Thank you for showing me, each and every day, how deeply loved I am.

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    It just shows you're so emotionally attached to him ! and that you really feel his love, most especially when you are in the heat of passion... Oh you feel deep, that's nice, very nice! I hope your guy doesn't have any complaints over it ^_^. In fact, I feel sure he enjoys that he can affect you that much!

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