Hi all, I'm after some advice on how to approach telling my wife i have found a video of a guy naked on her phone. It was sent via kik messenger, she has been receiving lots of messages via this kik thing for a while. last night while i was sat watching late night t.v. (she had gone to bed) i thought i would just have a look on here phone out of curiosity as to what all the kik messages are. that's when i found the video of the guy playing with himself, and one of my wife sucking her nipple, presumably a response to the guys video?? My question is, how do i bring this up with her, in a way that wont suggest that i was checking up on her, although i guess i was. i did find it a turn on actually, as we have briefly mentioned having someone join us in bed a couple of times before. So anyone know how i can approach all of this with out upsetting my wife??