I've been in many situations where several guys falling for me, even though I had a boyfriend at that time. And now that said, no I'm not a drop-dead gorgeous with a killer body-- I am a plain girl-next-door type of average gal. But it's been so bad that even a married man once tried to do something with me. Granted, he probably wasn't happily married, but that definitely was a turning point. From then on I stopped hanging out with guys as much as possible. The problem is, now that several of my friends are married, I am bound to hang out with them and their husbands. I know I sound extremely conceited but I am terrified that the same thing would happen again with their husbands. I am scared to death to have a conversation with their husbands, I am horrified that my friends might think that I'm flirting with their husbands, and I feel suffocated everytime I have to interact with their husbands because I am scared that they might fall for me if I become comfortable around them (I know I sound revolting. Trust me I am typing as I cringe from self-disgust). I don't want to be a bad friend, and I really really want to have a good, normal relationship with my friends and their husbands. Is there a secret of maintaining platonic relationships with your opposite gender?