Hi, I'm Jimmy and I've got a serious problem and I don't know what to do! I've been dating my girlfriend (Jessica) off and on for 8 years now. We aren't good together, we fight constantly and we don't trust each other at all and we cheat on each other. We are only together because we have a 4 year old together, and we are trying to keep him from a horrible break up. I met a girl who was a friend of a friend 2 years ago (Amy) and she is amazing. I began dating her when Jessica and I broke up for a time, and we dated for 4 months (no sex, only kissing and dry humping) She told me at the time that she wasn't over her ex and didn't want to have sex. I tried to understand but sex for me is a need of mine, so I didn't hold out for long. Eventually Jessica came back and I slept with her again and we got "back together." I told Amy this, and she seemed to be okay with it. I've talked to Amy off and on for the last year behind Jessica's back. Amy knows about Jessica, and knows that I don't love her and really just looking for an excuse to leave her. Amy and I hang out once a week (Jessica works out of town for weeks at a time and cheats on me, but she pays me and our childs bills) When Amy and I hang out, I have overwhelming feelings of love and connection. I tell her about this and compliment her but she never wants to kiss or touch, and only hugs me. She will talk with me about my latest fling I'm having with a random chick, and doesn't seem to bat an eye. Only thing is Amy works 2 jobs, and is really busy. I really don't think she's dating anyone else, and I trust she would tell me if she was. Is Amy waiting around for me to break it off with Jessica again? I want Amy, but I just don't know why she is only friends with me? She gives off all the signs of being sexually interested in me.