How can I stop her from being a party goer?

Discussion in 'Relationship Questions' started by movieguy36, Jul 13, 2018.

  1. movieguy36

    movieguy36 New Member

    When I went to a foreign socials one time, I got to meet a so damn gorgeous woman who captures my heart right away. We introduced ourselves, exchanged mobile digits and hit it off. We decided to start dating after one week. For two months of dating subsequently, she officially became my girlfriend. This woman used to party real hard and it was fine with me at first. However, as time goes by, she would go clubbing almost every night and I hate it. Every time I tell her to stop going to parties, she gets mad at me. Some of my friends would come and tell me they saw my girlfriend in a bar which turns out finding myself at a particular bar looking for my stubborn girlfriend. I don’t want her to go to parties because there are tons of dumbass in there but she won’t listen to me. How should I tame her? How can I stop her from going to nightclubs?
  2. JustSomePerson

    JustSomePerson New Member

    "How should I tame her?"

    STOP. She's a free woman. If she wants to party, she can party. If you don't like it, you either have a problem with insecurity, or you guys just aren't compatible.

    There's a good chance that her constant clubbing is a problem. Generally it's a problem if you party too much. But you can't control that.

    You can't control her, and you can't try to change her. Just love her if you can, and if you can't, move on.

    But, from one man to another, it sounds like the problem in this situation is all yours.

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