My husband I have been together for about 11 years now and it has not always been easy. He has depression and refuses to get help for it. I have been patient and when he has spells in which he is irritable, I just give him space. Sometimes it is hard to get him to get out of the house and do things. Is there anything else I can be doing to help him out, or is me just being there good enough? He is also the private type who does not like to talk about his feelings.