I Never Watch Porn When in a Relationship?

Discussion in 'Sex Advice' started by Unregistered, Oct 15, 2011.

  1. amy005

    amy005 New Member

    My fiancee watches it once in a while on the internet, free sites only of course. I don't think I ever really cared. I know that it is normal and it is sometimes just a curiosity thing. I even watch it with him sometimes. It gives us ideas and is good for our relationships. I never understand when women say that they think of watching porn as cheating. I honestly feel a lot of women who have that big of a problem with it are just really insecure or they have husbands/bfs/fiancees that are doing in so much that they don't even pay attention to their wives. That is really the only time when I think it is a problem
     
  2. christys04

    christys04 New Member

    Me and my husband does not need porn or watch porn. I have never really like porn and never really cared for it. My best friends husband has a huge stash of playboy magizines and porno movies.
     
  3. babycakess

    babycakess New Member

    I don't really consider Playboy to be porn... It's pretty much just boobs and isn't really enough to excite anyone that I know of that isn't a kid. I do think its nice to look at. My husband has a subscription because he likes boobs and the articles. Its funny because as a kid I always laughed when I heard people say they read it for the articles and thought "yeah right"... but now that I'm older, I realize the pictures aren't overly sexual and the articles really are pretty good LOL
     
  4. unbeliever

    unbeliever New Member

    I wouldn't say you are in the minority, I think most couples that I know don't watch porn together. However I still know quite a few that do.

    Most of the ones I know do not actually watch it together while they are having sex. It appears to be more of a curiosity thing than anything to see if there is anything they would like to try that they are currently not doing, like looking for new ideas or inspiration. I know that some couples watch it because they want to be more sexually adventurous, but don't have creative imaginations. Also I know that they sometimes pay a game using pornography and make a deal with each other to imitate everything that is done in a random pornography scene in their own bedroom (I've heard that this can actually be quite a fun thing to do).

    The few remaining that I know actually do use it as 'background noise' while they are having sex. Just extra stimulation I guess.
     
  5. summerRain

    summerRain New Member

    You are such a must keep boyfriend. How I wish my boyfriend can be as loyal like you. You know how to respect your girl and that's what I admire from you.

    Watching porn together with your girlfriend would be nice. But watching porn alone for me is not a good habit because it might be a start of infidelity.
     
  6. inTHEsane

    inTHEsane New Member

    I see the point you are making and I think your guys opinion differs due to past history you may have had. Granted it is warranted concern with a lot of people, but then to play devil's advocate you say it might be the start of infidelity, if that was true then technically him seeing any other women in public, at the beach etc could be infidelity. It's a trust thing and if you don't have that then you probably don't have the right person. Also though for some guys, not myself, watching porn might be the fantasy some guys need to not stoop down to the level of infidelity. To each is own though.
     
  7. Amalia

    Amalia New Member

    Why don't you try watching porn WITH your girlfriend? Maybe let her choose what to watch, that is a very good way to find out what she likes and improove your sex life. Anyway, there's nothing to be ashamed of, everybody watches porn, both men and women ;)
     
  8. jessica23

    jessica23 New Member

    We actually watch it together sometimes. I know he watches porn, and so do I when we aren't together. We are visual creatures.
     
  9. Jenna

    Jenna New Member

    Wow at all the people encouraging him to watch porn. If he's happy with his girlfriend and is completely satisfied with her, then why encourage him to go ogling other chicks or getting into something that is addictive for some people? He's not missing anything in his life, so back off people.

    My husband is the same way. He doesn't view porn for religious reasons, but he also says that porn just isn't satisfying to him. Some people just don't like it, or don't need it in a relationship. There is absolutely nothing wrong with not viewing porn- don't let people make you feel abnormal because it is completely normal to be satisfied in a relationship or not want to look at pornography for one reason or another.
     
  10. cris2fear

    cris2fear New Member

    I am in a relationship and I do watch porn a lot, and like the earlier posters say, its quite an insult for most women to find out that their partners watching porn, while they don't seem to understand that men will be men and it has nothing to do with her as a woman, would she prefer that I have actual sex with another woman then watch porn? I think not.
     
  11. nellnell022412

    nellnell022412 New Member

    My boyfriend has a little stash of magazines.bIt does not bother me though because sometimes i am not always up for do the deed with him. It probably saved his life when I was pregnant lol or he would not have gotten anything.
     
  12. freddygaviscon

    freddygaviscon New Member

  13. bocuahus

    bocuahus New Member

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