I've tried to do something truly loving and cool for a 27 year old virgin who cannot get a second date. I offered him to visit me and we can have se'x with me for about a week, as a means to give him confidence to do better with women. He declined, which is OK the guy would not be 27 year old virgin if he went out of his comfort zone at all, but the way he did what rude and uncalled for. I am reasonably good looking and have a very high IQ, well read and traveled. He will never, in his developmentally behind life, date or get to make love with a woman like me. He told me he won't report me giving me a benefit of a doubt, as if offering sex to a grown ar'se man was illegal, or broke forum rules. Again, it's not that he declined the sexiest, coolest, most loving woman he will ever get a chance with, it's the way he did it. So this got me thinking, why am I here trying to help people sort out their problems. Most people do not care about other people's problems or to help anyone if there's nothing in it for them. Why am I the fool that knows how usually no good deed goes unpunished but still trying to help??? So as of right now I am leaving the forum and people can sort their own crap out without me. There is something seriously wrong with me when I am constantly trying to help people who are over and over again, rude, ungrateful and selfish buggers in general. Best of luck to some of the cool people I've met on the forum, I am off to find a hobby that I will gain something from other than feeling like a bloody idiot. I've never gotten even as much as thank you from loveadmin for keeping this forum alive... I am just done... My pearls before swines never again.