Opinions please....you are trying to work out a relationship with your kids father and you have custody already set along with child support. He rents the home you are potentially moving into. He makes approximately 3 times the amount of money you do and is ordered to pay only 75% of the child support recommended by the stae based on his income. He wants you to pay 40% of your income to him in rent and utilities and groceries. This equals out to more than his child support payments. You ask if he's willing to help you out in times of need like car repair type stuff. You also provide food and diapers for your child on your designated custody days. He says he cannot afford to help you with things like car repair. What is your reaction and opinions?