I'm currently in a 6.5 years relationship. It was a pretty steady thing until 1.5 years ago when I left to study abroad so we have been in LDR since. I went back home once and he promised that he will visit me as often as he can but he still never has. We haven't seen each other for almost a year now and I don't feel in love with him anymore. We don't call each other as much, and our conversations are very impersonal. He also has been initiating sex chat quite often I just dodge the topic about 99% of the time. I feel like he only misses me for the sex, or maybe not at all. Plus I am also never comfortable doing that thing. I also don't see him having any concrete plans to visit me anytime soon and I don't want to go back to my country anymore, so I don't see how this relationship can survive. He keeps on telling me it's because it's expensive, but it's been so long so I don't see how he still hasn't saved enough money yet. I know his income(which is quite above average for his age) and he's not supposed to be financially supporting anyone. I feel like he's just not willing to make an effort to see me. And selfish as it may sound, I don't want to make an effort either for someone who cannot reciprocate. I tried to break up with him a few months ago but he begged me not to, saying that he'll change, etc. I agreed saying we'll talk again in end of November to check if he has progressed with his savings, but neither of us have brought up the topic yet, I don't know why. Maybe I'm scared that he broke his promise, or scared that I can't break up with him if he did. I feel so alone away from my friends, him and my family, and I'm scared to be shattered if I make the wrong decision and no one is near for me to cry on. Has anyone had a similar experience? Care to share your thoughts?