Letting Go Of A Toxic Relationship

Discussion in 'Break Up Forum' started by atrueloveme, Oct 1, 2017.

  1. atrueloveme

    atrueloveme New Member

    Letting go of any relationship is difficult. Letting go of a toxic relationship is even more difficult. One never expects to get into a toxic relationship, and when you realize that you’re in a toxic relationship, it usually catches you by surprise.

    The problem is, while we recognize a relationship as toxic, it is still quite difficult to convince ourselves to let go. One of the first things you need to remind yourself when you let go of a toxic relationship is that you are not weak for wanting to let go of the relationship. The signs of a toxic relationship can vary at times.

    Sometimes they’re clear cut: you might be experiencing emotional and physical abuse, lying, and cheating. However, there may be times when you might not be sure if you are in a toxic relationship, but you do find yourself feeling something off about your whole relationship. This might be characterized by feeling lonely, despite being in a relationship, a feeling of not wanting to see your partner, or the feeling of a lack of intimacy between the both of you.

    It is difficult to leave a relationship, even a toxic one, because of the fear that one might end up alone and unloved. However, once you have come to terms with the fact that you are in a toxic relationship, and have made the decision to leave, this gives you the strength to change your life with your own two hands for the better.

    Sometimes being selfish is exactly what you need out of your life, and there is absolutely nothing wrong with that. You cannot keep living with the mentality that if you love your partner enough, they will be willing to change for you. If they were really willing to change themselves, they would have done so a long time ago.

    If the relationship makes you feel bad, then it might be a bad relationship. Fight for your relationship if it’s still worth it, but if you find there’s no point, then allow yourself to let go. Sometimes our lives are not better by the people we keep in our lives, but by those we choose to let go to improve our lives.

    Have you ever been in a toxic relationship? What advice can you give about getting over it? Send me a message, or leave a comment below, and we’ll talk about it!
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  2. girl97

    girl97 New Member

    i have that feeling of being alone, actually i cant even describe it but i just feel that something isnt as it should be. he is nice to me but i cant figure out what is wrong
  3. Judy Davis

    Judy Davis New Member

    Hi there, according to me if you are in toxic relationship you need to leave it. I agree that most of them even don't end it because they fear of being alone which results in depression, negative thoughts and most of them commit suicide. There are also professionals who can suggest you the best solutions to save your relationship. Recently my friend who was facing many issues in his relationship he visited voyance direct and according to him they provided him the best solution.
  4. John Paulsen

    John Paulsen New Member

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