I've been seeing a boy exclusively and sexually for about two months now. In this time I've orgasmed twice. He doesn't last long at all and fingering me before hasn't worked. He doesn't like oral but tried it on me once and got it completely wrong. It's to the point where some of the times afterwards I feel such a strong negative emotion that I cannot lie with him and sometimes cry. Last night I left the room once he slept and masturbated. I've told him things need to change and that's when he started fingering me. I cannot go on in a relationship where sex satisfies only him. I do like him a lot, we have a great mental connection. However, this is slowly extinguishing an emotional connection. Right now I feel like we're friends who ****. I'm torn!