I met someone online and we have been talking for about three months now. He has already told me that he loves me and we are planning on seeing each other next month. Things are great for the most part until last night I asked him for his address so I could send him a Christmas card and he just told me to bring it up with me when I visit him. I asked him why I couldn't just mail it and he said he is afraid I'll just show up at his house unannounced. How could he possibly I love you when he doesn't trust me with his address? Am I just blowing this out of proportion? Is he just trying to be safe online?