Hello! I have been with my boyfried over 3 1/2 years, recently we have been through a really hard time, almost breaking up and stuff but we agreed to give it a try one last time, the thing is, i am feeling really insecure, he said he has a lot of doubts about the relationship and he doesnt love me as much as before, it kind of broke my heart but he also said i am still the person he loves the most and he loving me less is a natural thing to happen after fighting so much, and a thing to work on, not be upset about. But after hearing him saying that im feeling really bad, i get anxious if he doesnt text me like every two hours or if he forgets to call me when he said he would for me it is a definite sign he doesnt love me anymore or even think about me. I just feel him super distant and I dont know if it is true or im just being paranoic. I used to think healthy relationships need space but i have forgotten what "space" is and what is to be distant, so I would like to hear your opinion on that, what is a healthy normal interaction for a couple that cant see each other every day?