I'm new and I would like to hear some suggestions. I am a younger guy, in my early 20's. I have this huge crush on my mother's friend, she is in her late 40's, from work. They know eachother well, and they are nice to eachother. Anyways, like I say I have this huge crush on this older woman. I would like to know how I can go about moving past my established relationship with her as just being friends. I want to take it slowly and do it right. Our friendship is due in part because of the fact that I take care of her car for her. I can, and have carried meaningful conversations with her. They have gotten to some flirtatious points, at times. We get along well. Even her dog loves me. She has 3 kids and is divorced. She considers herself single. She has dated younger guys before. So it seems she has no problem with the idea, but I would love to have that same chance with her. I would like to subtly work on the idea of a relationship.