I was dealing with a girl who had her guard up real high. We worked together, and things didn't ever go anywhere. She lead me on big time, and when ever I would ignore her she'd get real vindictive and become a b*tch. But when I would start giving her attention, she'd almost act like I had "cooties" lol, especially around other co-workers. When we were together alone, she was completely fine though, for the most part. She ended up dating a guy with out letting me know, while having me "wait" until she stopped working 2 jobs at the time, so I just kind of stopped the approach. Nothing came out of that date, but when she found out that I found out, she started dating another guy for a few months. We had a talk together one time where I sort of called her out on a bunch of stuff she did, and she basically said she was just uncomfortable dating because we work so close together and she isn't looking for anything serious. During that time I was with another girl, so it wasn't a huge deal to me. But I ended up getting a different job recently, however a couple weeks before I did, she just started dating another guy. She is definitely a very confused girl and, honestly, I don't think she knows what she wants. However, even after so much negativity with her, and her purposely doing or saying things to try and hurt me, there is definitely still a part of me that wants some type of relationship with her, just because I got to know her and felt a connection was built. My concern is that I think she might think I am still in a relationship, and also I know she is in a relationship. But according to her, she wasn't looking for anything serious. So I am not sure what exactly that means as far as commitment with her dating life. I haven't really spoken or texted her in weeks. So I am not sure if I should even bother another attempt in the future, and if so, how long do I wait? Or do I just wait to see if she tries to contact me, if things don't go well with her current relationship? I am not sure if I am just going to make things worse, because I got the feeling she would push me away from her getting emotionally attached to me or something? I know a few girls can be like that, and this one told me that not many of the guys she has dated have even been her "type" and I think that she seems to get into relationships based on the couple I have seen with guys who she has no real interest in so that she doesn't get attached.