Why am I ruining my chances for getting married?

Discussion in 'Relationship Questions' started by Smart1, Jul 10, 2018.

  1. Smart1

    Smart1 New Member

    Now that my boyfriend is ready to marry me, I'm doubting his words. All I keep thinking about are words that he told me 2 1/2 years ago. After 6 months into our relationship, he asked me to move out because he wasn't feeling as strongly as he would have liked to and he didn't think he ever would. I was completely devastated at the time. Well apparently, he did end up fallng in love with me to the point where he wants to marry me, but I can't seem to fully internalize that because my mind keeps re-playing the words, "I don't feel as strongly as I would like to and don't think I ever will." Good grief...the man is telling me he LOVES me and is in it for LIFE and all I can think is "do you really...maybe you'll change your mind after six months". WTF is wrong with me? I do love him and want to marry him, but my mind is nuts. Is there something you can say that can help me to accept his love?
     

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