Ok I need help. I honestly feel guilty about ALL of this and it makes me go against all that I believe in. Ok well I been dating this guy for almost 4years. My two daughters 4&5 see him as their dad (their real dad passed years ago so they don't really know him). And he's honestly a GOOd man. Takes care of his responsibilities, makes sure we have everything, making plans as in building houses for us etc. he also has 5 other kids who live with us full time, and they see me as their mom as well. Well about couple weeks ago this guy messaged me. Now this guy me and him had history. He's someone where we ALWAYS had a strong connection with one another but it was never the right timing. We still feel this connection 7 years later, which is weird to me that we still have that strong feeling by the way. And me and my boyfriend I'm with now I feel like I'm settling with him and that I know he will always do us right and be good to us. But would you leave after being with him for almost 4 years for a guy you never had a relationship with but always had strong connection with for 7?? And the fact that the one I'm with currently I feel as if I bore him, or our connection is not so strong. But I would be heart broken to break his heart after all he does for us . I'm torn on what to do.